Dealing with a Medical Emergency Part 3: Lessons Learned

Lessons learned from my recent ER visit:

• Lesson #1 Remember that the medical staff likely knows little about Parkinson's. Try to have patience when they tell you to "STOP MOVING!" to put in an IV. I promise you, if I could have stopped moving, I would have. A lesson for the staff: Stress makes Parkinson’s symptoms worse. Even in high pressure medical emergencies, patience and compassion go a long way and result in less bruising.

• Lessson #2 Be your own advocate. Don’t hesitate to ask questions, remind people you have Parkinson’s, or ask for things to be repeated. Patience is required on both sides in these situations, but is often in short supply, when you or a loved one are hurting. Remember, you and the staff have a common goal: to get you treated and out of there as fast as possible.

• Lesson #3 Be proactive and trust your instincts. In my situation, I was told me to “follow up with my gastroenterologist.” Urgency was not stressed. I knew something wasn’t right in my gut, literally. My visit to the ER was on a Friday night (of course). I spoke with my primary care doc Saturday and called my GI doc on Monday. They had a cancelation for Tuesday, which resulted in a Wednesday colonoscopy. II’m thankful that I listened to my gut and sought medical attention quickly. My diagnosis was ischemic colitis, which can be serious. I started on antibiotics that day and had to switch up my high fiber diet to a low fiber diet right away. If I had waited to call my GI doc, I think I would have been much sicker, much longer.

• Lesson #4 I married an amazing man (I learned this one a long time ago). He is a gift from God. My words can’t express the gratitude and love for this man who takes such good care of his very high maintenance wife. We didn’t expect this when we got married over 40 years ago. If am able, I will gladly care for him when he needs it. My prayer is that I will be able to, and for him to not need it.

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